ASAWRWB, my daughter married in 2003 and begot 2 children.my son-in-law cheated us though he was already married, he did not work for first 3 years for fear of dowry harrasment case pending against him due to first marriage. we came to know of this since 1 year. he is arrogant and mistreated my daughter, he uses filthy language, he is blackmailing.. More
salam i was married to a person who was abroad.i was having irregular period ,and after 1 month i got pregnancy in tube .and dr did my operation.after operation my husband told his mother that i have irregular cycle and we didnt tell them before marriage and they divorced me on this basis.still i was fertile but they didnt waited instead they called.. More
Assalammualaikum, bdsm is a foreplay where a couple (husband and wife) enjoying private time together by tie up his/her couple and spank etc. The question is, is it permissible in Islam? if a man praticing this kind of fetishism, and likening his wife as slave, isn't that considered as dzihar?.. More
My wife and I recently had an heated discussion in which I ws intoxicated and angry, she claims I divorced her but I have no reconlation of say it nor was there any witness to her claim. With that being said is her divorce claim valid... More
salam my question is that at one time i was having doubts if my marraige was valid because of something i said, but i continued to have intercourse and i had a child with my wife. what i said did not invalidate my marraige but at the time i was having alot of doubts. am i sinful for continuing to have intercourse with my wife before clearing up these.. More
Assalamu Alaikum Dear Sheikh, jazakhallah for answering my previouse quetion about my husband who use the bank interest & not paying his zakaa, missing prays,listening to music,getting angry only when remiding of islam... since I asked him to pray properly becuse thiking that might correct him.. he is asking me to find a job.. in order to show.. More
I am working part time in an EPC company and have a seven months old baby boy.We live with our in-laws and my husband is their only son. We are married for last one and a half year. My husband has planned to go in Europe for two year studies. During this period, I have to stay with in-law and have to financialy support to myself and our baby and may.. More
alsalam alikoom I have a question and need to know the answer. my husband has been seperated from me for 6 years. I have not seen him because he went to another state and left me and his 2 girls. he gave me a divorce last year in egypt without my present.and within the three months period I tried to reconcile back with him and he took me back all.. More
TALAQ IS TAKEN IN FOLLOWING SITUATION, I WAS FORCED BY FATHER IN LAW THEY SAID IF I AM NOT GIVING TALAQ THEY WOULD GO TO POLICE CASE.SO I WAS AFRAID OF MY FATHER, HE IS SO OLD, SO GAVE TALAQ WHILE THE MY WIFE WAS NOT PRESENT IN MY HOUSE, ONLY SOME PEOPLE CAME TO TAKE TALAQ,BECAUSE MY WIFE HAD GONE TO HER FATHER HOUSE TO RESIDE SOME DAYS,WHEN I WENT.. More
My mother-in-law said something to my mother that I did not like. After several months I told my husband. My husband said that she can say anything that she wants. I said that no one has the right to say whatever they want, only those who are mentally deficinit (they dont know what they are saying). He got mad and said I have insulted his mother,.. More
Dear Sir, Assalamualikum, May Allah grant you peace and health. I Syed Firasat Ali, presently working in Makkah, i am married and i have one son who is 4 years old, i have given divorce (i.e. Talaq e bayana in Urdu) to my wife as she did sin by having an affair with my younger cousin brother first of all she told me that this affair is only over.. More
i am a moslem man 31 years old i have vitiligo (white patch on the skin not contagious but probably inherited) my spot is on the lips a few small dots, 2 years ago its not visible but now its a little bit visible and thers a few man saw this in the mosque and they began telling everybody about this and know i am embarassed to go to the mosque, except.. More
My paternal uncle raped me five years ago, which of course was against my will. I have now grown mature enough to marry. What should I do? I once frankly told a suitor about what had happened to me in order not to deceive him but he decided to part from me. I therefore fear potential rejection. I once visited a female physician who offered me a solution... More
Assalamu Alaikum.My husand look after me and my childern very good. only problem is he has a network of friends with whom he used to enjoy outside even nights. some times he goes at nights and come back in the morning.If I ask about that he will get angry and irritated and shouts at me .I used ask him whether he had liqour or went to another woman,.. More
As Salamu Alaikum! Dear Sheikh, My husband is kind, caring & loving too. we have 2 kids. He does pray. week ends some times he miss fajr willfully due to gusl. The problem is he is not paying his zakaa. but he lookafter his father & his widow sister & us very well. he have bank accounts & he said he is useing the interest money also... More