I am a white woman in a relationship with a Muslim. It is very difficult for both of us and his family refuses to meet me. Can you tell me why this is and is there anything I can do that will help the situation? Many thanks in advance for your help. I know I want to spend the rest of my life with this man as he is wonderful and treats me so.. More
I got married recently and there is a 7-years difference between me and my husband. I am much more active than him, and that includes sexually. I have tried talking to him about this and he has tried to increase the number of times we have sex but he has a busy schedule and I know he is tired a lot. This leaves me very frustrated sexually.. More
If my wife does something that I find not good i.e. cooking carrots instead of peas; even though I told her to cook peas that night, or if she does not make me food when I want it cooked. Can I divorce her because of her ignorance?.. More
My brother is trying to find me a husband, a pious man. But I have been asked by another man to marry him, he says he will become a good Muslim Inshaa' Allaah, he is going to come back in my college within 2 months and he said he will have a beard, etc., Inshaa Allaah. I have told my mum, and says just wait until 2 months and see whether he.. More
I'm a convert Muslimah, well a revert as to all children born with Islam. I've been married for two years with a Muslim brother, this brother has big legal problems, he's unable to work to support us because he does not have legal documents, and he has warrant by the law. He has a little job that's not even enough for himself, I'm trying to.. More
A husband has two wives; one has a problem with snoring due to nasal problems. So the husband chooses to sleep in another room while he stills sleeps with the other wife in the same room. Thus the wife he is sleeping away from (only because of this problem) she feels very hurt and sometimes feels a little distant from him please. Is it ok.. More
What if the husband wants to love his wife during the day, but she can't be with him, as they live in a joint family (father, mother, brothers, sisters, ..), where she has to be always available outside her room to finish her daily work (cooking, washing, cleaning, ...etc.) She doesn't go with him, because of the fear that she would be late.. More
My sister was divorced and she's in her waiting period so she wants to know if it's ok for the husband to stay with his other wife until the Iddah finishes or is it Waajib for him to stay in my sister's house. Please answer me as soon as you can. .. More
I was advised by a friend to ask you this question:
For almost 2 years I mailed a friend of mine who is a guy, and I knew that he loved, and I don't deny that liked him because he had good morals. But few months ago we decided to stop mailing each other because it is unreligious and we are both trying to abide by Islamic rules. We agreed that.. More
I have contacted you before and I do appreciate your advice, however I also visit other sites and the advice can be conflicting. when I visited last I mentioned that I am married, but have been unfaithful (Zina) and husband knows (I informed him because I thought I was obligated to do so, only to find out later that I was not obligated.. More
I lately have been reading about Islam and believe it to be the path for me. I am currently engaged to a Muslim man and need to know if our marriage will be valid as long as I become Muslim first. Also my past is not a clean one. I have done many sinful things and was wondering how that would affect our marriage bond. I do regret these things and will.. More
My friend's wife always accuse him of going after other women just because he wanted to marry the situation has lead mutual distrust, we tried to intervene but it keeps on persisting my friend is considering divorce but she always shed tears when relationship goes soar that she is orphan should he continue to tolerate her because of her orphanage.. More
I'm a non-practicing Muslim man, but I believe in Allaah strongly and try my best to do the right thing by people (Muslims and non-Muslims). I have been married to a non-practicing Jewish girl for 6 years. She's honest, respectable and has very high standards of good morals and principles. For the last couple of years there's been talk between.. More