His caring uncle is angry with him for no reason

24-6-2009 | IslamWeb

Question:

Asselam alliekum wa rahmetu allah we berekatu
i am a university graduate, i spent my 6 years of university life in my uncle's place, eating sleeping and every thing else. the problem is these weeks my uncle really gets mad at me only in a second, i actually become shocked because i did nothing that i know really. i some times want to leave his house and live some where else, and if i try to ask him what i did he even gets more mad than before. plz just advice me what shall i do, after all he is the one who let me to his house for six years, after my father passed away. i really want it to end it peacefully.

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Answer:

All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger.

 

First of all, we advise you to supplicate Allaah to reconcile between you and your uncle. Then, we advise you to seek the reasons why your uncle is angry with you. You may seek the help of some righteous and rational people to reconcile between you and him. Afterwards, if reconciliation takes place, then praise be to Allaah, otherwise, you would have done what you are required to do.

In addition to this, now you are at an age when you may be self-independent, so if you find any embarrassment in living in the house of your uncle, then you should move to live somewhere else.

Allaah Knows best.