All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger.
It is narrated that Ibn ‘Umar said: "None of you should betroth a woman whose brother (in Islam) has betrothed." [Al-Bukhari and Maalik: Marfoo']
This contradicts superior morals and chivalry, afflicts the first suitor with harm and brings about hatred among people. Some scholars said that a marriage should be nullified if it is concluded on such a betrothal.
Consequently, if Islam prohibits betrothing a woman already betrothed by another man, then what will be the ruling in case of betrothing a woman who is married to another man? This is certainly prohibited. Even if she has filed for a divorce before a judge, no man is permitted to betroth her. Moreover, even if the judge has finalized the divorced and such a divorce has been documented, it is still not permissible for anyone to betroth her before the end of her ‘Iddah (post-marriage waiting period).
Islam also prohibits spoiling relationships between people, especially spouses. Buraydah narrated that the Messenger of Allaah, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said: "Whoever swears by Amaanah (honesty) is not of us, neither is he who instigates a wife against her husband or a slave against his master". [Ahmad]
Thus, the behavior of this young man is unlawful under the Sharee‘ah (Islamic law). He must fear Allaah The Almighty and withdraw his proposal to that woman.
Allaah Knows best.