Praise be to Allah, the Lord of the Worlds; and may His blessings and peace be upon our Prophet Muhammad and upon all his Family and Companions.
We ask Allah, the Greatest, Lord of the Great Throne to fix your matters, make your problems easy and grant you and us what is beneficial.
Both options you are asking about are forbidden. A loan based on Riba is among the major sins. May Allah protect us from that.
The second is also forbidden since you may die not for the Sake of Allah, or you may become involved in a war against Muslims which is a hideous act and disgusting practice. Hence, you have to give up both options. Know that Allah will give you better than what you have left for Him. Allah Says (interpretation of meaning): {…And whosoever fears Allâh and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty). And He will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine….}[65:2-3].
Allah knows best.