Shaking hands with right hand only

24-8-2004 | IslamWeb

Question:

I have accepted the Salaafi Da'wah a year ago, in my country (India) most of the people while shaking hand uses both their hands while I have heard that shaking with the right hand only is good. Please clarify according to the Sunnah of the Prophet and also tell what I should supplicate while I shake hand with anyone.

Answer:

All perfect praise be to Allaah, The Lord of the Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) is His slave and Messenger.

It is a recommended Sunnah that men shake hands with men and their female Mahram, and women shake hands with women and thier male Mahram (unmarriageable relative).  Ahmad, Abu Daawood, An-Nasaa'i, and Ibn Maajah  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  them reported that the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) said: "No two Muslims meet and shake hands with each other, except that Allaah forgives them before they leave each other."  Ahmad and At-Tirmithi  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  them reported that a man came to the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) and said: "One of us meets the other, does he bow to him.  The Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) said: "No."  The man said: 'Does he hug him and kiss him.'  He  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) said: "No."  Then the man asked: 'Does he take his hand and shake hands with him?'  The Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) said: "Yes."

However, the fact that the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) told him not to hug each other is limited to people who are not coming from traveling.  The evidence is the narration of Anas  may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  him who said: "The companions of the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) used to shake hands whenever they meet each other and they used to embrace each other when they came from a journey." [At-Tabaraani]

Imaam An-Nawawi  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  him said: "Shaking hands at every meeting is a Sunnah."  Ibn Rushd  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  him said: "It is recommended."

However, according to the Sunnah, shaking hands should be with the right hand only, not with both hands for the following reasons:

1. This was the usual practice during the period of the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ).  Imaam Muslim  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  him reported that 'Amr Ibn Al-'Aas  may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  him said: "I came to the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) and said: "Stretch out your right hand …."  So, the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) stretched his right hand only but he did not stretch both hands. This is also what 'Amr Ibn Al-'Aas  may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  him asked him to do.

Moreover, Imaam Ahmad  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  him reported that Abu Ghaadiyah  may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  him said: "I gave the pledge of allegiance to the Messenger of Allaah.  Abu Sa'eed  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  him asked him, 'Did you really shake his hand with your right hand?'  He said "Yes."  Imaam Ahmad  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  him also reported that Anas  may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  him said: "I gave my pledge of obedience to the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) with my hand, i.e. his right hand."

2. Linguistically Musaafahah (shaking hands) in Arabic means touching the palms of the hand, it does not mean touching the back of the hand of the person with the left hand while shaking hands with the right hand.

3. The left hand is not usually used in good and respected actions, rather it is used to remove impurity, or to sniff water, and the like.  Therefore, it is not suitable to use it in shaking hands even if it is along with the right hand.  'Aa'ishah  may  Allaah  be  pleased  with  her said: "The Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ) gave preference to his right side in all his matters; for putting on his shoes, for combing his hair and for performing ablution".

Mubaarak Poori  may  Allaah  have  mercy  upon  him said: "Shaking hands or giving a pledge of allegiance with both hands is not confirmed in any sound, clear and authentic narration." 

However, if one shakes hands with both hands he does not commit any sin. Besides, there is no specific supplication that is said at the time of shaking hands.  Some scholars are of the opinion that one should ask forgiveness of Allaah at that time, but this is not confirmed to be from the Sunnah of the Prophet  sallallaahu  `alayhi  wa  sallam ( may  Allaah exalt his mention ).

Allaah Knows best.

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