Selam aleküm, my story is a bit complicated. I'm just escaped from my violent, psychopathic man from Turkey. I am a German woman who has lived in Alanya for almost 9 years and since October 2005, I am married with this Muslim man. At first everything was quite normal, but he had hit me in the time already 2 times and so much so that there the police.. More
Asallam U alaikum, Could you tell me if husband said statement in anger 'get out of here' without intention of divorce, however because couple were unsure of ruling wife said say 'take me back' and husband said 'i take u back ' on the wife's request however he didn't have any intention of divorce to begin with, is this still not counted as one divorce.. More
AoA. I've a very serious question i am confused between my husband and mother. My husband don't wants very frequent phone calls and meetings with my family although he is always there to help them whenever is required but he is not very friendly with them. And my mother wants him to act as his son and not son in law. She wants frequent phone calls from.. More
Assalam I alaikum I wrote to you in the month of rajab last year ah I got a reply from you. The problem I am facing is getting worst. My husband bought me all the way from my country to the us.we signed the papers here and got married. My husband has been very harsh to me all through out and very insulting. He insults me on a daily basis about my looks,.. More
Assalamalaicum, There are two verdicts by Islamic court (lower islamic court and higher islamic court) in my case. My question is that my ex wife follows only first verdict issued by lower islamic court and accordingly completed her iddat and at same time the trial of higher Islamic court under process. At the time of appeal higher islamic had also.. More
I once said to my wife some words that would be considered implicit divorce. My intention wasn't to divorce her but to let her know my displeasure. I had always thought that the words have to explicit for divorce to occur. Later on, I read on IslamQA there is an opinion that even implicit words lead to divorce. The shaykh said the strongest opinion.. More
Salaam, I have divorced my wife 3 times and returned her back based upon a scholars advice that I can invalidate on of the divorce since it was out of anger. We encountered another issue and she wrote me an email asking for divorce. I swore/vow that upon a second request for divorce in any form from her, I shall honor her request. She wrote me another.. More
What is the islamic solution if the husband belives that our prophet SAWS was created from the light of Allah? or he SAWS is created from light? He dont bow to any nor call upon any except Allah nor is involed in visiting graves for haraam purpose or wearing haraam amulets ...there is no other shirk noticed...it seems that he believe only becuz he has.. More
We got married last year. I live in UAE and my husband in the USA, as our reception is yet to happen. In Feb, we had a fight and I end up asking my husband for separation, he didn’t divorce me, but messaged "i free you from me for your benefit". In Mar, we had another argument and he sent me an email saying divorce, divorce, divrce….& that time.. More
Assalamu alaikum, What can i do when i can not get divorce in my country from my husband? I live in Finland. I have asked from several islamic center in my country but all of them stopped helping me even i have proved that my husband have already other fiancee and i have picture where he is touching her even they are not married. I have also much messages.. More
Assalam o Alaikum brother I would like to ask sumthing from you as you have better knowledge. When I got married to my husband he said that I could ask for separation or divorce whenever i wanted. Does that mean he has given me right to divorce myself whenever i want? We had some issues in our marriage and I didnt want to be with him anymore. I am not.. More
Is it permissible for my husband to stop my children from seeing my family. He has had disputes with them in the past and is always full of resentment for them. He only lets me take my youngest two children and not my two eldest because he thinks that they will somehow poison their minds against him. I can confirm that this is not the case and that.. More
assalamu aleikum i am a convert. i married more or less 6 years ago. 3 children. recently i found out that he smoked from before marriage. i dont know if he still does . he also smoked in front of his children he also lied about it during our marriage, because since long i suspected he might smoke. when we got married he didnt tell me. i never would.. More
I have separted from my husband throgh khoula 3 years before. after 24 years we lived together.we have 2 daughters. within 6 months he got his second marriage and now his second wife delivered a boy. my both daughters married. I am a working lady and i have spent all earning with him and bought 2 houses which is under his name. because of khula i could.. More
I was short on my rent this month. I told my wife that we should negotiate with the estate agent, to pay them in 10 days time. Behind my back she borrowed the money from an ex suitor, which has annoyed me a lot and we had a heated argument about it. I told her that she has disgraced and belittled me and I would not accept such behaviour again. She sent.. More