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  • If parent requests that son divorces his wife

    1.If parents especially mother told her son to divorce his wife without any reason or simple reasons, is it a duty of the son to divorce his wife as an obeyed son of the mother? It is to be notated that all the attempts are made to make her understand and she is strict on her decision. I heard in a hadith ( i can not recall where i read) that if your.. More

  • How to react to parents’ constant criticism

    Assalam wa alykum i need some advice on dealing with my parents who keep criticizing me daily for almost every thing since i was a child. No matter what i do. i tried my best to make them happy, tired to do everything that they like but when ever i do anything wrong they criticize me more than expressing their happiness for something good i did. they.. More

  • Favoring one's mother with better food

    Salaam alaykom wa rahma tullahi wa barakatoh dear shaykh. Sometimes it may happen that I have something better than my mother, for example at dinner I can have a better piece of bread than her. I want to give it to her and take hers, since mine is better, but she won't allow it (I know it is out of love from her, but she is more precious to me than.. More

  • Dutifulness towards an abusive and harsh mother

    Salam alleykum,this is a problem with my mother. She divorced with my father when I was 8 years old and since then, she became abusive to us,unbearable, wishing our death etc when we were children, until we grew up. Time did not helped her stop, we grew up, all my brothers got married.She does not even talk to her brothers except when she has some benefit.. More

  • Dutifulness to parents continues after their death

    ASSALAMUALAIKUM WA RAHMATULLAHI WA BRKATAHU RESPECTED SIR, 10 YEARS BEFORE MY FATHER WAS ADMITTED TO HOSPITAL FOR SOME BLOOD CLOT IN HIS BRAIN. DOCTORS TOLD US THAT HE WAS MENTALLY NOT STABLE. AFTER SOME TIME THE CONDITION GOT BAD EVEN MEDICINE DIDN'T HELP US PEOPLE TOLD US TO TAKE MY FATHER TO A SHEIK WHO RECITE SOME QURAN VERSES FOR THIS .THERE WE.. More

  • Her mother and grandmother are ruining her marriage

    asslam o alaikum...my grandmother left her husband because he was injustice to her.laters my mother lived an independant life ,as my father was not much interested in understanding his duties towards his family so my mom worked very hard to educate us. my grandma lives with us and ive always seen my mother and grandmother scolding n backciting my father.now.. More

  • His parents burden him with demands for money though they have sufficient resources

    Assalaamualaikum brother I am coming from a family which other than the name nothing else is Islamic my parents want to live on interest money my father drinks at times they don't say prayers nothing is followed.After marriage my wife told me what's right and wrong now Alahmdulliah i am a following Muslim to the best of my knowledge.Due to this reason.. More

  • She suspects that her mother's money is partially unlawful

    Asalam o alaikum!! If someone is pious and obeys all the necessary orders of Allah and can't disobey Him in large matter but she comes to know that some of the earnings of her mother can be unlawful because she doesn't go for job daily but on all the necessary days. As this is my case. My mother is religious and a doctor but she doesn't go for job daily.. More

  • A son stealing money from his father

    I do steal my father money, because when i ask him to give me certain amount, he never give me, even the money he gives me for food is never enough, have i committed sin by taking his money? .. More

  • Parents have no right to control their son's life or that of his wife

    My parents in law are always interfering in every matter after marriage. Even in my husbands absence I am expected to be at their home and they decide when I can go to my home and for how long. They are interfering in our money matters and telling me which dress I should or should not buy and the price range. They compel me to wear jewellery. They decide.. More

  • Her father wants her to cut her hair against her wish

    Assalamu Alaykoum, As a child, my hair was always cut short to my father's likings however now I do not want to have short hair anymore and I have been growing it for the past couple of years and it has grown quite long but not too long (about 15cm down from my shoulders). My dad continuously asks me to cut my hair short and I refuse because when I.. More

  • He wants to leave his abusive parents

    السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ I got a very bad education from my parents, they were always offensive, aggressive and me and my brothers were almost beaten by them in the past(childhood), because little unimportant things. We don't get a islamic education, but elhamdulillah, me and.. More

  • Her mother treats her in a provocative manner

    I have a question regarding how to deal with my mom. I am married with two kids and I have recently realized that my mom is trying to compete with me in how happy I am with my husband and how much money I spend. She even gets very insecure when I talk to my father or he gives me an expensive gift. For the last 15 years my mother has been making fun.. More

  • How to deal with a sexually abusive father

    Asalamu aleykum. My father has abused (inappropriately touching and kissing) three of my older sisters when they were teenagers. They came forward with this when my father also started to abuse our 10 year old niece. My father is now 60 years old and very sick. As a family we decided to not go public with this as it will diminish our family name and.. More

  • One is blameless for not telling parents about the reason for not having children

    I married a relative of mine two years ago, but we still do not have children. I am suffering from sperm weakness and we are trying to seek a treatment for this secretly. Is it permissible for us to conceal the cause of not having children as well as the problems that we are facing from our parents? Knowing that we try to achieve our goals secretly.. More